21 February 2021

In Which We Eat Out A Lot and Vince's Hi-Fi Arrives!

Starring roles:
Shannon - Receptionist at CKVU TV
Gail - work colleague at CKVU TV
Don - CEO of CKVU TV, my boss
Brian Boitana - American figure skater
The Woolstones - family we stayed with on arrival - Carolynn - daughter
Sheila and Patrick - the Irish couple we are renting from
James - my baby brother
Wendy, daughter of Mum & Dad's neighbour who now lives in California, and Mark, her little brother.



Dearest wonderfulist and lots of other things nice, Mum and Dad!

How's that for a beginning? I mean it though! I want to know why I'm now Dearest Joanne in your letters as I used to be Darling Joanne? Haha

Friday 11th May 1990
A very dull and rainy day today.
Work was quiet so went and sat at the switchboard with Shannon to try and learn it.  It doesn't look too difficult, but I just watched today.  Anyway, I was looking at the television screens and I saw Brian Boitana was being interviewed in our building!  I didn't even know he was coming in.  Well I didn't get to meet him, but it was quite exciting to know he was there.  CKVU are sponsoring an ice-skating event that Brian and his partner were doing.  I didn't get free tickets for that though, sadly!
Got the Seabus home.  I just fancy a change of scenery sometimes.
Watched Dallas this evening.  I like Cally so much and she is really funny in this episode. And JR is behind stupid as he's committed himself to a looney bin to get in touch with Jessica!

Saturday 12th May 1990
Had to go to college for the day to do the first part of a word processing course.  Fancy having to do it on a Saturday!  At least it wasn't sunny and hot or I would have been very upset!  It was a good course though and I learned a lot.  We had a nice pasta lunch as they have a French Chef who cooks fresh food there!
Vince is on call this weekend so is going everywhere with a portable phone.  Poser!  He was walking through a shopping mall when the phone rang and he had to answer it.  Haha - I wish I'd seen him.  He said he was embarrassed.
Went out for a drink in the evening with Carolynn and two other girls.  Vince is always surrounded by girls lately!  We went to The Bayside Room in English Bay.  It's where Carolynn took us when we were here on holiday.  It's nice there with a beautiful view across the Bay AND they have a piano player.  And guess what, they have phones at every table for the use of the customers.  But of course, Vince had his with him.  Luckily it didn't ring!  It was a fresh night, a bit chilly, but the sea air is so invigorating.  Lovely.

Saturday 13th May 1990
Happy Canadian Mother's Day!  Forgot to wish you this on the phone earlier, but was concerned with you not being well.  Poor Mummy - I wanted to comfort you, but it sounds as though Dad was taking good care of you.  At least Dad got to do more talking today.  I really don't know what I'd do without your phone calls and your letters.
I made food for the Woolstones today as we were going to barbecue.  I did chicken kebabs (or kebobs as they call them) and rice and salad ad burgers.  They were dead impressed.  You should have heard them and it was really simple.  It wasn't a very nice day for a BBQ so they cooked outside, but we ate inside.  It was nice even though I do say so myself.  Vince did cook it well, mind you!
My favourite film "Singing In The Rain" was on tonight.  Well neat!!  Made me think of you, especially the bit at the end with the arms - remember?  They have information bits between the movies on Sunday night and apparently Gene Kelly wasn't happy with the choice of Debbie Reynolds as co-star, because she wasn't a professional singer and dancer.  So he taught her, how amazing is that?!

Monday 14th May 1990
Had second part of the word processing course today.  Was good again, but only had sandwiches for lunch today.
Sheila and Patrick have just come home.  They've been away for the weekend. Apparently, they disappeared for Mother's Day because Sheila wasn't likely to get anything from her two sons.  It's quite sad - they couldn't have children of their own, so adopted twin boys.  I think they're about 19 now, but don't have anything to do with Patrick and Sheila anymore and they don't know why!  Perhaps they'll come to see sense one day.  I hope so.  Also found out today that Patrick's Dad is very ill and only has a few weeks to live, so he's got to fly back to Ireland next Friday.  He is hoping he makes it in time.  That's sad isn't it?
Rang James, as you know, to wish him an early Happy Birthday.  It was so lovely to talk to him - he was telling me all about school.  I think he has to be 18 to apply for a Blue Coat at Pontins and does he realise it's a Summer only job?  Can't wait to get his letter.

Tuesday 15th May 1990
HAPPY BIRTHDAY JAMES!
Worked all day today, as Gail was away.  I had to get up at 6am - yawn!  It was quite nice when I was up though - normal working hours are 8.30-5pm.  I was quite nervous about it, but in the end enjoyed myself.  I felt quite important!
Don, my boss, went out for someone's birthday lunch.  I went into his office in the afternoon and was asleep!  I wasn't sure whether to wake him or not, so I said "Excuse me, Don?" - well he nearly jumped out of his skin.  I said "heavy lunch was it?" and he said "Yep, that's it exactly!".  It was funny.  He's supposed to be retiring soon - I'm not surprised!
Went to The Sizzler in the evening because we couldn't be bothered to cook.  Tut tut!  Oh well, who cares, I don't - it was very nice! Haha.
Heather called to say she got your letter.  Can't believe you both decided to write to each other at the same time.  She does seem to be a little bit psychic about things.  Anyway, she said your words were lovely and that you have a way with them.  I agree.

Wednesday 16th May 1990
Back to normal at work.  It was extremely quiet again today and I was actually very bored.  Gail didn't have much to do either.  It's not so bad when the boss is away, but when he's around, you have to try and look busy and it's not easy!  Felt quite miserable when I got home.
Carolynn came round and we all went for a walk in Lynn Valley Canyon.  We walked a different way and came across this deep clear pool among the rocks.  It was beautiful, deep, clear and aqua green.  It would have been lovely to swim in (if the weather was warmer).  But it was fascinating to gaze at.
Carolynn brought your note to Heather with her to show me.  You really did write that with feeling.  It was lovely.   I want to say that Heather and George have been really good and they have looked after us well, but no matter how nice they are, they'll NEVER be you two.  But I guess I don't need to tell you that, I just wanted to say it.  I'm silly I know!
We had another letter from Double E Removals, which has really annoyed us both.  They are almost accusing me of lying about the missing package.  Well, they are going to get a piece of our minds tomorrow.  I'm going to send them a fax from work. We've also found out that the company this end were supposed to issue us with insurance forms and on calling them this evening, for the third time since delivery, they've found the forms in our files!  Amazing!! So we will see what happens now.
Still, some good news too, we've received our credit cards today.  Our own bank wouldn't give them to us until we had 9 months financial history here, but another bank gave them to us just like that.  They are visas, so I'm off on a shopping spree now!  (I wish). 
Got your letter today, which apart from being wonderful, softened the blow from the horrible Double E letter.  I can understand why you decided to move your bees, it certainly sounds as if the garden was getting a bit hair-raising.  I think I would have been quite nervous.  You just need to hurry up and get a bigger garden!  All my teddies and dolls did arrive safely.  The teddies in the wardrobe were sitting almost exactly as I put them.  It seems very strange that everything we had in England is now here in Vancouver.  It's hard to take in that we actually live her sometimes.

Thursday 17th May 1990
Went out to lunch with a girl from work, Carol.  She is really nice.  Her ex-husband is English, so I make complete sense to her!  Her current boyfriend has a Hi-Fi system like Vince and also prefers records over CD, so our other halves also have a lot in common.  They hardly sell any records over here, they are dying out, it's mostly CD's you find.
Went shopping to Save On after work.  I didn't know what cereal to buy.  I've been having Rice Krispies, but although they are exactly the same as the ones I've always had, they just don't taste the same!  I'm very upset!

Friday 18th May 1990
CKVU-TV are putting on a two-day show - The Children's Miracle Network Telethon.  It's something like Children In Need, except that this is just for children's hospitals.  Anyway, they've been putting up the scenery in the big studio and it looks really good.  It's amazing to see how they can transform a studio.  Apparently they have a set for another program and it's the inside of a brain.  Yuk!
Wendy called this evening, it was nice to speak to her.  She's going to England soon for Mark's wedding - I didn't even know he was getting married!  Apparently, you're going to the evening do - did you know that?!  If you do, please take some photos.  How time flies, I can still remember Mark and Dean playing together as little boys.
Sent out for pizza this evening - oh gawd what a hard life this is!

Saturday 19th May 1990
Aerobics morning.  Vince did circuit training, then went swimming, had a sauna and used the whirlpool. He starts and finishes half-hour earlier than me.  We had a lady instructor today, she was a toughie, but it was a fun workout.  Actually, I think Vince should join in for the last half hour don't you?
Went to breakfast at a place called Glady's.  Vince had this great big fat ham steak with eggs.  It was more like dinner.  Greedy piggy poo!  I had a lovely omelette.  It had cheddar cheese and cream cheese, mushrooms and green pepper. Cor!
Went to a British car exhibition at Vandusen Gardens.  I think you would have enjoyed it a lot, Dad.  They had some real old classics there, including some Morgans - I would still like one of those!  They had TR6's, TR4's, TR3's, M.G.'s, Aston Martins and loads more.  We didn't take the camera though, so no photos.  These gardens are really lovely, although we didn't have a good look round because we were worn out.
Went to see a film "Pretty Woman" in the evening with Richard Gere and Julia Roberts.  It was okay, but nothing special, but Julia Roberts is so beautiful.

Sunday 20th May 1990
Wonderful to speak to all three of you this morning! I got really upset afterwards today though.  I've been feeling sad on and off all this weekend, and missing you badly (which I always do, but it's worse today).  I think the dull weather doesn't help either!
To answer your question about where we'll put you at Christmas, well as you say there's always Vince's van or a tent.  But we do hope to buy a place this year, which will solve everything.  But if we do happen to be here still, there's a spare bedroom and a sofa bed, so there's plenty of room and it will be fine with Sheila.  But in any case, we both would like our own place by then anyway.  Do you think you will definitely be coming or does it depend on Dad's work etc.? I know you want to come and of course we want you to (soooooo much).  Anyway, you don't have to tell us yet, we were just wondering ...
Went to a Flea Market in a bit warehouse, but it was a load of old junk - just like a giant boot fair really.  Garage sales are a big thing over here, people just sell off all their old stuff from their garages and gardens.  We haven't been to any yet, but Sheila and Patrick go to quite a few.  I suppose you can get some quite nice things.
Popped into Lonsdale Quay briefly.  The rain came down really hard and heavy at one point, it made the water seem very brown and menacing.
Went to the Woolstones' for dinner - again!!  They had quite a crowd today.  Heather taught us a new card game called Frustration.  It was fun, but yes, very frustrating haha.  Vince said I'm not a very good wife 'cause cause I beat him.  I'm the winner, he's not!!  He's just jealous.  There was a storm tonight and the thunder boomed so loudly - I've never heard anything like it - Carolynn screamed!!  I wonder if the thunder sounds so much louder because we are near the mountains?  It sounded like it was right above our heads.  I loved it though - you know how I love the sound of thunder.  Everyone keeps telling us that usually the weather is lovely this time of year, so we are waiting patiently.

Monday 21st May 1990
Queen Victoria's birthday today, so everyone gets the day off.  Spent the day in Stanley Park, which is beautiful.  Took some nuts and bread to feed the squirrels and the ducks.  Oh it was so wonderful, the squirrels were hungry and were running up our legs and bodies to take the nuts from our hands.  We took some photos so will send you some.  Saw some lovely rabbits too, one of them was very brave and kept coming up to us, so I called him Flopsy.  We didn't have anything to give him, so I offered him some bread and he ate that!  We'll take some carrots next time.  The park was quite busy today and they had a few side shows: clowns making balloon animals and a Punch & Judy show, which I thought they only had in England.  It just goes to show.
Had a cup of tea in the garden with Sheila and Patrick when we got home.  Sheila told us to be careful of the squirrels as they carry rabies!  Hmmmm!   They told us there is supposed to be a whale in the Burrard Inlet, that's where the Seabus crosses.  I wish I could have seen it.  Apparently, it came in after the fish at a fish factory.  He's not trapped though, he can get out again.  There is a trip you can do from Vancouver Island where you go out in a boat to see the whales in their natural habitat.  That must be well neat!

Tuesday 22nd May 1990
Back to work today.  Don gave me some praise - he said it was really nice to have me there and that I was doing good work.  He said he hoped I was happy.  I thought that was really nice of him and it made me feel good.  He is retiring at the end of August and a man named Peter Viner is taking his place.  He's supposed to really nice too.
Went shopping after work for Vince's Anniversary present.  I won't tell you what it is, as he's going to read this letter!  I used my new credit card - I like that way of paying for things!  I was in Robson Square, by the Art Gallery, and I saw CKVU filming, I wasn't sure whether our reporter Douglas Miller knew who I was, so I just waved, but he spoke to me anyway.  It was sweltering hot this afternoon in Downtown Vancouver, but I looked over at the North Shore and it was black and cloudy.  Anyway, I got on the Seabus and it started to rain!  It looked so pretty though, because the sea was dark and the sun was shining through the rain and it looked just like crystal drops falling on the water.  There's something more lovely to see every day.
Vince has set his Hi-Fi up now, so is happily listening to his records.  I think he was having withdrawal symptoms!

Wednesday 23rd May 1990
Went to Heather's Mum's after work with Carolynn and she cooked us dinner.  It was really nice.  Her Aunty Dorothy popped in too - she's another trendy one!
Carolynn came in to see Vince's Hi-Fi and she ooooh'd and wowed over his record collection.  They were whispering about what we're going to do for our Anniversary.  Vince was going to take me on the Royal Hudson stream train up to Whistler and then come back on the boat, which would have been wonderful, but the train is under repairs until June.  

Thursday 24th May 1990
Haven't done much today.  Work is extremely quiet the whole building over.  Had a barbecue at lunchtime which was nice, although a bit chilly in the back alley.
Carolynn rang and did more conspiring with Vince.  I had to go where I couldn't hear them.  Blimey!

Well this letter is getting a bit overdue, so I should end it here.

Jo's sign off 24.5.1990




9 February 2021

In Which The Bees Are Frisky And Are Moved To A New Home

 Starring Roles:

Dave (Bee Dave) - Who runs the Bee Club
Pat - Mum's friend and work colleague
Angie - Mum's work colleague
Nanny - Mum's Mum
Judy - Nan's dog
Old Face Ache - Mum's boss at the Dentist where she works
Mick - Pat's husband
Dean - My brother, who now lives in Canada with his wife, Catherine



Dearest Joanne and Vince,

Hope you are both well.  Everyone here is keeping well and enjoying a bit of Summer at last.  Just been and posted your letter and now starting again, it's all go!  The lady up the post office always says to me, not another one, and I say "Yup"!  So here we go again.

Monday 30th April 1990
A busy morning at work with Angie away, because Pat and I are running three surgeries between us.
Went to Dartford to pay some money into Nanny's bank - £140.00 which she had laying all over the house, so we thought it would be better to let us pay it in the bank for her.  She will probably accuse us of stealing it now!
Picked James up from school and said to him the bees are a bit frisky today, so go straight indoors.  As he went through the gate, one stung him on the neck.  Well as you can imagine, he went absolutely berserk and went running up the road.  I got the sting out for him and squeezed it till it bled because it can be very dangerous on the neck.  Anyway, after he came back from running up the road, they would not let us in the gate.  We had to put our coats over our heads and make a run for the back door.  They are getting a bit naughty lately.  I even had to put my full bee suit on to put some washing out.  We may consider letting the apiary have them, as there are so many now.  There could be up to 50,000 bees this year and that's a lot of bees buzzing around the garden.  It's just difficult with our small garden to sit outside with this many bees and Dad reacts to badly when he gets stung.

Tuesday 1st May 1990
It doesn't seem possible that May is here already and I can't believe that you and Vince have been married for nearly a whole year.  
It's been another hot day today and I told you yesterday that the bees have been naughty lately.  Well when I came home from work today, to my horror, the back garden was covered in dead and dying bees.  Dad and I looked it up in the bee books and we think they have a disease called Acarine, which is a small mite which develops and lives in the breathing tubes, making their efficiency reduced and they are then unable to fly.  If it is Acarine, sadly we may have to destroy them.  We are waiting for Dave to come out and confirm.  I feel so guilty about grumbling at them yesterday - I wish they could have told me they were not well.  Poor things.

Wednesday 2nd May 1990
Another beautiful hot sunny day.  Went to the pub, sat inside because it was too hot in the garden.  Talked a lot about bees.  I was a bit scared about coming home as I didn't want to see anymore dead bees.  There were just a few, and a few flying, so could mean that there are very little left in the hive. Dave still has not rang me, he is so unreliable.  The book says your Bee Manager will always be on hand when you want him!!  But oh not Dave!
Poor James has to bad hay fever.  I think going out on his paper-round first thing in the morning doesn't help. 

Thursday 3rd May 1990
Yet another hot day.  Apparently, it is hotter here than in Spain, we have temperatures in the 80's and Spain is only in the 60's.  This country is so stupid, they're already talking about water shortage.
The bees seem to be back to normal today and look as if nothing has happened.  Pat checked some of my bees under her microscope and they have not got Acarine, so we were very pleased, so we think it must have been spray poisoning which would only affect the bees who had flown to the area that had been sprayed (crop sprays). 
Dave rang tonight to see what the problem was and I said you're too late, we have sorted it ourselves.  Well really!  Fancy leaving a message on his answer phone on Monday and he rings me on Thursday.  Stupid Man!

Friday 4th May 1990
Another hot day - 82F.  It's too good to be true.  James had no college today, so he sunbathed with his shirt off, on the school field and came home RED!  Now he is walking about like a stiff board.
We have found a nice new home for our bees, we are taking them to Stanhill Farm on Sunday morning and putting them among the apple trees and the raspberry bushes, which all have lovely blossom.  They will love it.  They will still be mine and I will go out to them once a week to check them, plus we still get all the honey.  I rang Robert, who now runs the farm.  I grew up with him on the farm and asked him if I could put my hive somewhere and he said of course you can.  So we are looking forward to going out there once a week and being able to go through the hive without worrying about the neighbours.  It's also sorted the problem of what to do with them when we move.  Now Pat can just take them over.  
It's such a pity Grandad is no longer here and working on the farm as he could check on them each day for me, but I am sure he will know they are there and watch over them from Heaven.
Your letter came this morning - gosh such a big one!  Oh I do get so excited.  I want to open it so much and then on the other hand, I don't.  I have to wait till I have a cup of tea and coffee and can sit and read it in peace.  Thank you for the photos, they are lovely.  We think the car is super and can't wait to have a ride in it, it looks brand new.  James said 'cor, lucky devils'.  It's a pity the number plate is VNN, it should have been VIN!  The photo of Vince with Carolynn is lovely.  He looks so handsome, I should keep an eye on him Jo!  You both look so well and happy and your hair suits you.  I love the one of you sitting by the fire, it's very posh!  And the one of Smokey Cat, his eyes are looking straight at me as if he's saying 'look, it's me!'.  The views are just wonderful, and the one of Sheila is exactly how I have imagined her to look.  Thanks very much for the information, it's very interesting.  Your boss looks nice, at least he's better looking than old Face Ache! It's very good news about your work, you going full-time soon and Vince will soon be working out on his own.
You seem to be getting out and about looking at houses.  Hope you find one before we come to visit at Christmas, otherwise we will have to bring a tent, haha.  It seems so strange to me now that all your furniture, dolls and teddies are now in Canada.  How I wish I was one of your teddies, so I could sit on your dressing table. 

Saturday 5th May 1990
Phew! Woke up so hot this morning - even having to leave the windows open at night cause it's so hot.
Your parcel for James came this morning, so I have hidden it away till his birthday.  He's like you and gets so excited.
Went to Dartford with Dad.  We bought a new table and four chairs for the garden, very posh they are too.  The weather will probably change now, it's always the way!  
It was so funny at Bee Club today, we now have a rota for tea making and this week it was Dad and Mick's turn.  They had to make tea for 35 people and because of the weather, everybody turned up, but they did very well and they looked very good in their pinnys.  Dad wore the one you bought him with the bra and suspenders/stocking tops on it and he had shorts on, which looked even funnier.  They got a few laughs from the older ladies who have been doing the teas for years.
When it got dark this evening, and all the bees were home, Dad and I went out and shut them in, ready for their move in the morning.  
We watched the Eurovision Song Contest tonight and we did not win, we came 6th.  Italy won and we thought it was rubbish, never mind eh?!

Sunday 6th May 1990
The Early Bird Catches The Worm!  That was us this morning, up at the crack of dawn to take the bees to the farm.  Gosh, the hive was so heavy.  We stayed with them for a while to see how they got on.  It was so lovely and quiet and the sun was hot.  They seemed okay, so we came home.  Within half an hour of being home, the garden was full of bees again, two or three hundred at least.  It was so sad.  They were flying around where the hive was and they didn't know what to do, neither did we.  In the the end we put the old nucleus box out for them.  That was the box I brought them home in originally.  Good job I still had it.  Anyway, we put it where the hive stood and they started going inside, so when it is dark again, we will shut them in and in the morning move them again.  We can't take them back to the farm because they will come back home again, so we're going to take them about 10 miles away and let them go.  Poor things will have to find new homes.
Went to one of your favourite places today, Greenwich Market, to get your Anniversary present.  I think you will both like it, I hope so anyway!  It was so hot walking around the market.  James came over all funny, so he had to sit on the steps in the shops while everyone clambered over him.  He sure is a funny boy!
Vince, do you remember how I used to hate you and Derek watching Black Adder, because I thought it was stupid?  Well I have just watched Mr. Bean with Rowan Atkinson and I laughed so much.  I have to admit, he is very funny.  I know now why you and Derek liked watching it.  I even watch Black Adder now!!  How about that!
As usual, it was wonderful to hear your voice when you rang.  Keeps me going for another week.  

Monday 7th May 1990
A lovely day again today, a bit cooler, but nice.  Up very early again to take the bees away.  We took them right out near Sevenoaks and found a dense wood that was full of bluebells, then we let them go.  We ran like hell back to the car before they followed us.  I don't think they will come back to the garden from there, I hope not anyway!!
Called in to see Nanny on the way home and she was all dressed up.  I thought she was going out for the day with Don or someone, so I said, 'you look nice, where you going?' And she said 'back to your house'.  I had to explain that it wasn't today and she started to get all upset!  I felt so cruel!  So I said 'well you better come now you're all ready I suppose'.  I don't know where she got the idea from that she was spending the day with us.  Oh well, bang goes my sunbathing today and I was really going to enjoy myself with no bees buzzing round the garden to worry about.
Tommy Tortoise poo'd on the path and who trod in it and traipsed it indoors?  You have guessed right, it was Nanny and she tried to blame poor Judy Dog, but Dad could see it on her shoes!  My May Day Bank Holiday is not going so well haha.  And if I told Nanny once, I told her a hundred times, where the bees are now.
Dad went to work at 5pm, so I cooked Nanny some dinner and took her home about 8pm.
I'm going to have a nice early night with my book "Blue Above The Chimneys".  It's so good.  Cyn is waiting to read it after me. 

Tuesday 8th May 1990
Back to work today.  Boring.  Angie was back after her holiday, she is lovely and suntanned - I think she tans very easily and she must do as she had to sunbathe in between the rain showers!  Old Face Ache didn't even ask her if she had a nice holiday, which I think is very rude of him.  I don't think he likes his staff to have better holidays than him.  I think he thinks we all came originally from the workhouse (silly old bugger).
I was looking forward to coming home in the afternoons this week and sunbathing, now the bees are gone, but it has turned a lot cooler.  I even had the fire on tonight.
I've not been feeling very good today, I ache all over and Dad is fussing over me as if I am on my last legs, but he does mean well, bless him.  I don't know what I would do without him.  Anyway, I am going to have a hot Lemsip and another early night.

Wednesday 9th May 1990
Pay day again and pub day.  Just me and Pat today.  We were talking about recycling and being kind to the environment.  Pat is so good and makes me feel guilty.  I must admit I start off doing things, and then I just forget!
I don't feel so bad today, at least I don't ache like I did yesterday.  I'm just forever blowing my nose now.
Took Sam Cat back to the vets tonight and they gave him the all clear, so the pills they gave him have given him his appetite back and he's always at his food dish and is getting fat.  Some woman in the vets carpark parked right behind me and I had to wait for her to come out.  Stupid woman made me miss the start of Neighbours!
James is working over at Bexley Clubhouse tonight, collecting up glasses.  I think he'll end up as a Jack of all trades.  I also think he's smoking as he smells of it when he comes in.  He says it's where he has been with his friends, but I am not so sure!  You know what my nose is like for smelling things!!  I just hope I am wrong this time.

Thursday 10th May 1990
Raining hard today and very cold.  You know my old saying "The Rain Makes Me Feel So Cold"!! haha.
Angie came in today with the photos of her holiday.  They are quite good and her Dad's house over there is beautiful.
Went up to see Nanny for her birthday.  We bought her some slippers as her other ones are a bit tatty.  She was pleased anyway.  Don and Denise sent some flowers and she was over the moon with her little parcel from you.  How lovely that fridge magnet frame is.  I spotted it on her fridge when I walked in and she thinks it's lovely getting something from Canada through the post.
Oh I must tell you before I forget, Mick came in to work this morning, poked his head round the door and said 'don't you laugh Mave!  I have just had a Vince haircut' (spiked).  Actually, it suited him.
Nanny has just rang us, very excited and said 'Joanne has just phoned me to wish me Happy Birthday'.  She sounded very tearful, but very pleased.  Somehow I had an idea you would, you are so very sweet and thoughtful.  
Went up to see Dean tonight and as it was Nanny's birthday, I took her as well.  It was so nice to see Dean and he looked very smart tonight and he said he promised to write to you with an Anniversary card.  
Well I suppose I had better end this letter and get it off to you. 

Sign off from Mum 10.5.1990


Just when I thought I was done, a surprise extra page! 





1 February 2021

In Which Our Furniture Arrives from England

Starring roles:
George & Heather, Carolynn - the family we stayed with when we first arrived in Canada
Sheila and Patrick - the Irish couple we are renting from.
Gail - work colleague at CKVU


To the bestest Mum & Dad ever!
Hello.  How are you doing?  I'm still missing you lots and lots!

Saturday 28th April 1990
Went to aerobics.  Quite enjoyed it this morning cause I managed to do most of it without stopping.  
There was a fresh scattering of snow on the mountains this morning, so it must have been cold up there last night.  The clouds were almost sitting on the ground at the top of Lynn Valley (the area we live in).  It's weird but pretty.
Furniture was delivered this afternoon.  God, I'd forgotten how much stuff we had.  We've got one package missing, which apparently didn't come off the boat.  It's a package containing our linen basket, some linen and ornaments, but we don't know what ornaments yet.  
Left it all and went out to get some brunch at The Elbow Room.  Two people sitting next to us started chatting away to us - that happens all the time here, it's really nice.  
Vince had his hair cut short, but he doesn't look like a convict thank goodness.  It looks really nice.
Came home to unpack some stuff.  Lots of our glasses are broken and the lid of our coffee pot.  Also the glass on a couple of pictures.  The glasses were really badly packed, so I think once the insurance money is in our hands I'm going to complain bitterly! We are now surrounded by packing paper and bubble wrap!!

Sunday 29th April 1990
You called! Lovely as always to hear you both - and lovely to speak to James too.  Sad about the destruction in Knowle Park and those beautiful Oak trees coming down.  
We took a drive out to Lougheed Mall to get a present for James.  Hope he likes them - they should do him for the heatwave you're having in England at the moment.  Also, got something for Nan for her birthday.  Hope she gets it in time - it's a magnet picture frame, so she can stick it on her fridge and I've put a picture of me and her in it.
Popped round to see the Woolstones, but nobody was in!  Found out from Sheila and Patrick later that they had popped round to see us and we weren't in! Haha.
Had a fish and chip lunch at Lonsdale Quay and sat outside as it turned out nice in the end.  
Did some more unpacking, we're really fed up with it now!  Wish we could leave it unpacked, but we've had to do it to check it, then pack it back up again.  So glad to have the rest of my clothes though and my wedding dress, which arrived in good condition.  It was wonderful, too, to look through our wedding album.  I was brave and didn't cry, but I think watching the video will be a different matter.

Monday 30th April 1990
Back to work.  Mondays at the moment are fine, I don't mind them at all. 
Didn't do anything different today, had a major clear up in the evening.  Everything has now been opened and checked.  We've also discovered that our pillows are missing and also some expensive cables for Vince's hi-fi.  

Tuesday 1st May 1990
May already, can you believe it? I'll be seeing you before I know it!  But I still miss you bad in the meantime!
We were really busy at wok today.  CKVU is coming up to it's licence renewal time, so we have to get together detailed notes on what is happening on the channel, what new ideas they have, what they are doing about screening violence and all sorts of things like that, so Gail and I did a lot of typing today.  I enjoyed it though.
Heather & George came over this evening.  They were impressed with our furniture (what they could see of it anyway) and they thought the wedding photos were lovely.  Heather thinks Dad is so good looking.  She said 'you know, men as a rule don't really keep their looks, but your Dad is really pleasant to look at'.  Don't let it go to your head Dad!  I want you to fit on the plane at Christmas!

Wednesday 2nd May 1990
Went shopping after work and then had had dinner at guess where?  Yep, you got it, White Spot!
Had a letter from Gerard & Audrey which was nice!

Thursday 3rd May 1990
It was not busy at work at all today, so Gail let me write a personal letter.  I wrote to Jayne (who I used to work with).
We went for a walk in Stanley Park before dinner as it was a lovely evening.  Walked around near the miniature railway where there is a lovely trail.  Found some kangaroos which we didn't even know were there.  Stood watching them for quite a while and they also had a few babies in there.  As we were walking, all these squirrels kept running up to us looking for food.  One of them nearly ran up Vince's leg - it was so cute!  We went on the swings and the see-saw - it was wonderful and I felt like a little girl again!  I swung as high as I could and hung my head back like I used to as a kid.  It reminded me of our old swing in the garden, although I didn't hang upside down on the top bar!! I'm sure the see-saw must be made for adults - they're quite big!  We'll all go on them at Christmas!  We saw a few pretty bunnies too just running wild (they look like pet rabbits and they're very nervous).

Friday 4th May 1990
It was a gloriously hot day today.  Work was very quiet again, so Gail let me take a longer lunch hour.  I sat out the back of the building.  The view is not very pleasant, but it's a real suntrap.  Left work at 2pm and sat in the garden for a while with Sheila.  When Vince got home, we once again went to Stanley Park and this time we bought some nuts to feed the squirrels.  They are black squirrels by the way and apparently originated from Germany. 


Walked around the Rose Gardens which smelled divine in the early evening.  There's probably so much of Stanley Park that we haven't seen yet.  Stood talking to a Canadian from Saskatchewan, which I believe is the next State along from B.C.  He asked us for some nuts so that he could feed the squirrels.  It's so amazing that we can so easily go out to these beautiful places whenever we feel like it.  I wish we could visit you so easily!  When you drive across the Lion's Gate Bridge in the evenings, there's usually a lovely view of the sun setting on the water on one side and of course the City view on the other, then you take the Stanley Park turn-off and drive round to the Zoo carpark, which is just such a beautiful drive.  I cannot wait for you to see it.  I hope we have some nice clear days at Christmas, I don't want the mountains disappearing into the cloud!
Got a drive-through McDonalds on the way home and watched Dallas.  Missed April and Bobby's wedding last week, which I'm a bit upset about.  You'll have to tell me what she looked like when that episode comes round to you.  Sometimes I wish they'd get rid of J.R.  Can't he do anything normal?!

Saturday 5th May 1990 
Aerobics this morning.  Vince came with me and did the circuit training in a different room.  He does 40 seconds on each machine twice over.  
Had breakfast at the Dutch Pannecoek House then as it's very hot again today, decided to go up Grouse Mountain.  Up there, it was cloudy and a bit chilly, but the views were lovely.  Had lunch outside, got a bit chilly.  There's still a lot of snow up there, we were surprised as the ski-run is bare now.  It was such an experience though, there we are in shorts, t-shirts and sunglasses, walking in the snow! We took some photos so will send them to you next letter.  When we came back down, it was still sunny and hot.  

Vince and Jo in the snow on Grouse Mountain, North Vancouver

Drove to Cleveland Dam and laid in the sun for a while.  You probably remember that from our holiday photos.  Went down to the fish hatchery after that, but there weren't many salmon about yet.  We did watch some people canoeing on the river - they were trying to get through the barrier that had been set up, but the water was so rough, nobody got through.  As we were walking through the forest path, we saw this couple with a Siamese Cat following them, no lead or anything - Amazing!  They said that they take her for a 4 km walk every day and if they try to go out without her, she starts creating a fuss!  They trained her from a kitten, isn't that sweet?  Maybe I'll get Smokey Cat a pushchair and strap him in haha.
Cleveland Dam, North Vancouver - an incredible sight


Came home with burned faces!  Cooked some fresh haddock for dinner with chopped tomato, spring onion, bacon and nutmeg - it was quite nice.  They call spring onions green onions here - weird!  I asked the man in the supermarket if he had any green onions and he pointed to the spring onions, giving me a rather strange look!  Well, it's these Canadians that are strange - they talk a funny language!  I said to Carolynn the other day that I was a bit peckish and hadn't a clue what I was talking about!!  HAHA.

Sunday 6th May 1990
I get so excited when I wake up on Sundays 'cause I know I'll be speaking to you.
It's a shame you've had to move your bees, but I guess it was getting a bit hair-raising in your garden!  Fancy them returning to the garden too, they must have missed their Mum and Dad! 
Bloedel Conservatory, Queen Elizabeth Park, Vancouver - beautiful 


We went to collect Carolynn and went to Queen Elizabeth Park.  They have a large conservatory there with tropical birds, plants and parrots.  It's a bit like Kew Gardens.  After that, had some lunch at a place called The Bread Garden then took a walk down to Kitsilano Beach.  The wind was quite strong and the water was all brown and choppy.  Brrrrr.  So we didn't walk along there for long even though the sun was out!  
Had dinner back at the Woolstones, but left early to go home and watch the film The Untouchables.

Monday 7th May 1990
Worked a bit later today as I had something long to type, but I didn't mind.  
Ran to the mailbox to check for your letter, but it was empty!  When that happens, it seems forever to wait until the next day.  I was disappointed - very!  
Apart from that, a very uneventful day.

Tuesday 8th May 1990
Before I go onto Tuesday's news, I forgot to say yesterday, that Vince re-arranged the lounge last night to make room for his Hi-Fi.  I got dragged along in the armchair while I was watching "Peggy Sue Got Married".
Got your letter today - hooray!  Made myself comfy on the settee and settled down to read it.  I just love that!  It was a wonderful letter as always.  Whenever you mention going shopping in Dartford, it really makes me long to go with you.  When I think about it, it seems so close and so clear in my mind and I feel as if I could just join you so easily.  Often when I walk around the shopping malls in Vancouver, I think how nice it would be to walk round with you.  There are so many amazing clothes shops.  Dad - it would drive you mad with us in and out of the shops, but it's an experience!  We have a film coming out soon called Bird on A Wire with Goldie Hawn and Mel Gibson which was filmed here in Vancouver.
I've had another idea, if you come and live here, you can give up cooking Sunday roasts and go out to lunch all the time instead.  It doesn't cost much more than buying a joint of beef.  
Carolynn came round this evening.  She looked at the wedding photos and thought they were beautiful.  She brought round her photos from her Montreal trip which were quite nice, not as nice-looking as Vancouver, but does seem to have older buildings.

Wednesday 9th May 1990
My boss was back from his trip to Ireland and England today.  He told me about his trip to Greenwich and it made me very envious!  He brought me back some pot pourri from Kent to remind me of England.  I thought that was very nice of him.  He bought Gail a piece of real Irish linen.  I'm not sure if I told you that Gail is from Prince Edward Island (Anne of Green Gables land).  It's right on the East Coast of Canada and is closer to England than it is to Vancouver.
The President of Global, who is Mr. Big, came in to work today.  He is a really nice man, not self-important at all, just really down-to-earth.
Walked up to see the Woolstone's Nana after work, as she lives quite near my office.  Had a really nice chat with her, she is so with it! 
It was really hot today, so Vince cooked hamburgers this evening and we had them in the garden.  Halfway through my second burger, Patrick said "go and put a jacket on Jo, it's cold".  I know he's only being nice, but it makes me so mad!  I feel like saying "look, believe me, I know when I'm cold or not!".  Honestly!  And Sheila was sitting there in shorts - I should have said "go and put some trousers on, you'll freeze!!".
Heather called this evening, she has written a letter to you and Dad.  She thought it would be nice for you to hear how we are doing from someone else.  You'll have to let me know what she said.

Thursday 10th May 1990
Phoned Nan this morning to wish her Happy Birthday.  She was really pleased and sounded very sensible today.  I hope she doesn't forget I called, but I dare say she will!  She said she liked the picture frame and that she's already put it on her fridge.  Apparently, you had just left - it was about 4pm your time.  She told me all the bluebells in the woods are out and it looks very pretty.
At work, they are going to train me to use the switchboard in reception, as they very occasionally need someone to take over when one of the girls are off sick, so I said yes because it will mean extra money, but it will hardly ever happen.
Had a letter from Cyn today and Vince got his HiFi magazine from her, so he's happy!  Didn't feel like cooking tonight, so sent out for Chinese.  It was quite yummy.
Sheila and Patrick have been giving their garden a good water for the past few nights and there have been puddles of water on the ground.  Well, Smokey won't walk on the wet bits.  He pussyfoots around and then jumps right over them.  It's so funny, he looks quite panicky for a while.  Yet he's happy to go out in the rain - weirdo!

Well I think it's about time I finish this letter off, so I'll end it here.  I'm enclosing a postcard of Lynn Valley Canyon and a leaflet on Grouse Mountain, I thought you might like to see what they look like, although there's obviously a lot more to them than that.
As I write this, "Upstairs, Downstairs" has just come on the tele, it's on every Thursday, but they're not in order - stupid!  And tonight's episode is in black and white would you believe?!

Till the next letter... Love you and miss you with all my heart.  Big hugs and kisses for both of you from us and a big kiss and Meow from Smokey.  Kiss for Sam, Tommy, Caz and the bees.

Lots of love and lots more, Joanne & Vince xxx
Sign off from Jo - 10.5.1990


25 January 2021

In Which It's all about Bees, the Dentist and Snooker

Starring Roles:

Nanny - Mum's Mum
Jean - Neighbour and Mum of one of my old friends, also called Joanne
Pat - Mum's friend and work colleague, and Mick - Pat's husband
Don and Denise - Mum's brother and wife
Old Face Ache Torry - Mum's boss at the dentist where she works
Angie - work colleague from dentist

To our Dearest Joanne/Vince,
Hello again, hope you are both well and that you had a lovely Easter.  Hope you didn't make yourselves sick with all the chocolate.  We always look forward to Easter because it is the first holiday of the year and it goes so quickly.  We are all missing you so much, so I don't mind how quickly the time goes, it just means Christmas will come round faster.  Trouble is we will get older quicker!

Tuesday 17th April 1990
Easter over, but I don't go back to work till Wednesday.  I took an extra day off and was very lazy, but very nice it was too.
I saw Jean this afternoon with Justine's little girl.  She is looking after her for the week.  She is a funny little thing, spitting image of Justine when she was little.

Wednesday 18th April 1990
Postman got me up this morning, he had your parcel.  James and I were both trying to open it, we were both so excited!  It was lovely and I won't eat my share of the little eggs.  I will leave them in the little wooden basket which is so sweet and I adore the little Chick, he is so lovely and cute.  I am putting him in my glass cabinet.  I gave him a little kiss and said welcome to our home, just in case he is missing all his little friends.  The words in the card were very sweet.  Thank you both so very, very much.
Went to the pub with Pat and had a good natter, was talking about you and Vince and bees.  She should be getting her new bees soon, so will be back in business.
James and Darren went to meet two girls in Hyde Park today.  He came home for his dinner and now has gone to a fair in Danson Park.  Sorry I forgot to say, James wants to thank you for his chocolates and chick.
I've just watched Dallas and I'm very confused.  You said that April is pregnant, do you know whose it is?  Because she's not with Bobby anymore and do they get back together?  I do hope so.

Thursday 19th April 1990
Not a bad day today, sunshine and showers, but the showers are very cold and wintery.
After work, went and had my second nail check, she said my own nails are coming along nicely.  I have got so used to the ones I have on, I actually forget they are there and literally do everything with them.
Went to see Nanny this afternoon and gave her the Easter card from you and she had a little tear.  Don and Denise took her out on Easter Monday.  Surprise!  Went to some big garden centre and had lunch.  She said she enjoyed it.  She's having a new trim phone put in on Friday.  Don said it is too cold for Nanny to sit in the hall when she's on the phone, so she's having it in the sitting room. So I would imagine he's paying for it if it was his idea!  Oh God, that means she will be ringing me all the time now, until the novelty wears off!
Dad nearly made me sick tonight, making his sandwiches for work, with that awful stilton cheese.  He got it from Bob at the Bee Club - God, it's disgusting!

Friday 20th April 1990
I can hardly believe it's Friday again.  Makes you wonder how we get through all that food I bought last week.
Old Face Ache Torry is a Grandad again, his daughter, Monica, who is the same age as you, has just had a little girl.  He is a funny old bugger, you would think he would come into work and tell everyone,  but oh no, not him.  He told Pat in the surgery, as if it's a big secret and no one else must know, but Pat tells us everything.  He doesn't speak to me very much these days, I think he's got the message that I don't like him very much!
James has been working up the butchers all day again.  He must be hard up after what he said about it last time haha.  He's gone to Danson Park Fair again tonight to spend his wages.
We have just had the Royal film premier of "The Hunt for Red October" in London, so we must be behind you in the film world.  It looks as good as you said, so looking forward to seeing it.  I do like Sean Connery (he has such a sexy voice).  A good film to look out for is "Mountains of the Moon" - it's supposed to be spectacular.  You may have already seen it, I think it's a true story.  

Saturday 21st April 1990
Dad working till 11 o'clock, so went shopping on my own and I must admit it is the day I miss you most, especially when I walk past where we used to eat.  There's such a lot of pretty clothes in the shops at the moment that I wish I had such a lot of money to spend, as we always used to say.  This year's fashion seems to be very flowery designs of mixed colours.
Went to Bee Club this afternoon, not so cold as last week.  Where we park our cars, opposite the entrance, there is a big tree which is hanging over the roadway.  The high winds we had made it more dangerous, so Mick said he would saw it down.  He was about 15 feet up the ladder, sawing this big branch off, when it fell onto Mick and knocked him off the ladder.  He was stunned for a moment, had some nasty grazes and I'm sure he was hurt more than he let on!  Poor Pat just stood with her mouth open and said "oh my God".  We will probably laugh about it next week!
James is working all day at the butchers, he has offered him a permanent Saturday job and James said yes.  Oh well, that's good then!

Sunday 22nd April 1990
Dad working till 6 o'clock.  James out with Darren, so on my own again.  Will be nice when the weather turns warm and I can spend Sunday sitting in the garden and have salads for dinner, instead of cooking roasts.
Did nothing much until you rang.  Took me by surprise, but was lovely to hear you talk all about the house you went to look at.  Now that your furniture is there, I suppose you both would like to get your own house as soon as possible.  James has just come in.  I gave him your love, he was sorry he missed you.  He is actually getting his own tea because I am busy writing this letter.
It was the London Marathon today.  Dad and I gave it a miss this year.  He wouldn't be able to keep up with me anyway, now he's put a lot of weight on.  Haha.

Monday 23rd April 1990
Boring morning at work.  Saw Mick, he has actually got quite a few bruises, but he was up the ladder again this morning at work, clearing the gutters.
Came home and found out James had your letter.  Quite interesting reading your TV schedule.  There are quite a few programs that we have too.  Anyway, James can get writing now and tell you all his news.
Dad and I walked up the woods this afternoon to collect some old dry rotten wood to put in the bee smoker because we have been told by the Bee Inspector that it is good for the bees.  They seem to prefer the smell to corrugated cardboard, so we shall see next time we use it.  Our milkman is absolutely fascinated by the bees.  He he delivers the milk, he stays and watches them for about half an hour.  Hopefully he doesn't get stung, otherwise he'll be leaving the milk at the front door!

Tuesday 24th April 1990
Came down the stairs this morning, just as the postman put your letter through the letterbox, so I took it to work to read.  Would you believe it, I was so busy I didn't have time to read it.  Good job I didn't read it at work as it was so long it would have taken me all morning (well you know how slow I am at reading and I read every bit twice to make sure I haven't missed anything).
Went through the beehive when I came home and saw the Queen, who looks fine and seems to be working well.  So that's good.  Poor Dad got stung twice on the same hand, so much for the dry wood we got yesterday.  At the moment, one bee is dive-bombing the kitchen window!  Help!  And I need to get my washing in.
Sat and read your letter - can't get over all these restaurants you keep going to, there can't be that many left for you to try.  At least when we come at Christmas, you will know the best ones!  Diana Ross sounded good, blimey you've only worked there a short time and already getting free tickets. You certainly know how to pick your jobs, but good for you because you deserve the best.  You will definitely have to take me to the Music Box shop, it sounds great.  Is the Body Shop just the same as ours over here?  Oh and I just have to visit Mavis Street and take a photo!  I would love to have seen the Easter Egg Hunt, sounds great fun, although I'm not sure I would have liked to have been on the suspension bridge with all those people!!  
We were going to pop up and see Nanny this afternoon, but after reading your letter over and over, we didn't have time.
After Dad went to work, I sat and watched snooker.  It's the World Championship and Steve Davis is doing well at the moment.

Wednesday 25th April 1990
Pay day again.  Good O! Very warm and sunny today.  Went to work without a coat, but it's not meant to last.  Typical! 
Went to the pub with Pat and a lot of people were sitting in the garden.
Went to the shopping centre afterwards to try and buy a pair of slacks, but couldn't find anything that I liked.  Typical again!
Came home to find poor Dad's hand and arm really swollen.  He'll have to get some thicker gloves like mine, especially if he's going to react like this to bee stings!
Took Sam and Caz to the vets this evening.  Caz had his claws clipped and the vet said they were not flea bites on Sam, but little mites that got into his fur, making him scratch. You can't see them with the human eye.  Poor Sam did look quite indignant when the vet put the thermometer up his bum!  Poor thing, but he's got some pills to take so will hopefully feel better soon.
James is going to ask you to help him draft a letter out (in his letter to you).  He thinks he would like to be a Blue Coat.  He got the idea from you when you said he had a screw loose, so he thinks he could be the camp's idiot!!  I would agree with that and I'm sure you do Vince!  But Dad thinks he has to be 18 to apply - still it won't hurt him to write off and find out.

Thursday 26th April 1990
A nice morning at work without Old Face Ache.  Michelle, one of the dentists went to see Miss Saigon last night and said it was brilliant, but very sad.  I think I would like to see it, after I have seen Phantom of the Opera.  James wants to see it with me.  He really surprises me as he has such mixed taste in music.  One night he's got head-banging music (trash) blaring out, the next he's listening to Modern Romance - well there's no comparison at all is there?  
Went up to see Nanny this afternoon.  She looked and seemed quite well.  She has her new phone, but it is still in the hall.  It's a posh one, dark red.  She has not rang me since she's had it.  Perhaps she doesn't know how to use it?
James rang Pontins when he came home from school.  They said he was too late for this year, but would send all the necessary paperwork to him so he can read up on it and apply in February when they start auditioning.  He seems very keen at the moment, but you know James, it could all change tomorrow! 

Friday 27th April 1990
A lot of excitement when I got to work today.  We have been burgled again.  They got in through the new fence in the car park, broke in the back door and smashed the inner door.  They took the petty cash, which was not much.  You never know what's going to happen next in this place - we really need a burglar alarm.  The funny thing is, when Mick put the fence up, he put barbed wire on the top so no-one could climb over, but the clever buggers cut a hole in the bottom and crawled through!  The police seem to think that whoever it was, knew what they were after.
It was Angie's last day today, she is going on holiday to Spain to see her Dad for a week, he lives there now. She was getting so excited you would think it was the other side of the world.  I said "Angie, if Joanne and Vince moved  to Spain I would be over there once a month for a long weekend!  So good job you moved to Canada eh Vince!!
Went to Sainsbury's after work (boring).  Thought I had a cheap week and blimey it was more than it usually was.  Sitting here writing this and consoling myself with a brandy! 
Poor Steve Davis lost his match against Jimmy White  It was 14-16, so he did well.  Now he is out of the championship I don't want to see who wins, 'cause I only like to watch Steve.  Boo Hoo!

Saturday 28th April 1990
My Saturday for working with Old Face Ache.  God, it was horrible, like being in prison for a day.  Still it's over now for a few months.
Came home and had something quick to eat, and then rushed to Dartford.  Bought myself a pretty skirt round the market.  After that, went to Bee Club, half-hour late!!  It was very enjoyable though.  Mick's okay now after his fall last week.  He mended the club's lawnmower this week, he seems happier doing something like that than going round the beehives.  Pat has got her bees now at last, so she's happy.
On the way home, we called in to Sylvia and Gordon's - you know the ones that live round near Joan and Ron's.  Their bungalow backs onto the woods.  We went to see their beehives 'cause they kept saying come round.  Well, their garden is just beautiful, a pond with trickling waterfalls and very pretty flowers everywhere. The beehive is in one corner and the bees look very content with the woods behind.  Very peaceful, ah lovely.  Came home and felt sorry for the bees in our little garden with noisy kids next door.

Sunday 29th April 1990
Got up this morning to a really hot beautiful day.  Actually enjoyed cleaning the brass on the front door.  It's going to be roast beef with salad today.  The garden is looking quite pretty with a few flowers out.  The bees are flying, Caz the Budgie is outside in his cage with the bird bath in it and Tommy Tortoise is marching up and down, Lazy Sam cat is laying in the shade washing himself.
Went to get Nanny and after dinner went to Knole Park in Sevenoaks.  We haven't been there for a while.  Well we were so shocked at the sight of the devastation from the hurricane we had two years ago.  It was terrible, there must be 90% of the trees down.  They are starting to plant new little trees but it is going to take at least 200 years to get it back to how it looked.  The poor deer can't even hide in the trees now, it was so sad.  They must have been so scared when the storm was raging.


Nanny Annie and her dog Judy, Knole Park, Sevenoaks

On the way back to the car, I was running and skipping because of ringing you when we got home.  I was so pleased and excited to hear your voice - it perks me up for the whole week.
Watched the snooker final in the evening and Steven Hendry won.  Still my Steve (Davis) will win it back next year.  Poor Nanny fell asleep on and off while snooker was on.  I think we wore her out, she walked about 3 miles which was really good for her age.  She has not said any more about her boyfriend and she has changed her mind about Don and Denise living with her, she wants to be on her own.

Well my Jo and Vince, I think I better finish this letter.  I seem to get carried away.  Keep up the good work both of you.  Love and miss you very much. 

Sign-off 29th April, 1990


18 January 2021

In Which We Fall Into A Routine

Starring Roles:
Carolynn - our friend whose family we stayed with when we first arrived.
Cheryl and Sean - Carolynn's older sister and her boyfriend
Heather and George - Carolynn's parents
Gail - work colleague at CKVU
Nana Ella - my step-Nan, married to Grandad Doug (my Dad's Father)
Riyaz - friend of Carolynn's

Dear Mum & Dad,

Off we go again.  I think we're becoming expert letter writers now.

Tuesday 17th April 1990
The weather was very dull this morning.  There was a storm in the night but I didn't hear it!  It's quite fascinating here even when the weather is dull because the clouds hang around in the mountains as if they're caught on the trees.  Mind you, sometimes the mountains completely disappear along with the city!
Grouse Mountain - which disappeared completely when it rained.  Like a magic trick!

Posted letters to you and James this morning.  I find it quite amazing watching the letters go into the box, knowing that they'll be popping through your letterbox in a few days.  I picked up some photos this afternoon, so I'm enclosing photos of the car at long last, plus a few others too.  I've written on the back again.
We had a letter from Tommy and Marie today and one from Hayley and Paul.  Hayley has drawn us some lovely pictures.  She's drawn a picture of Vince and me in the plane and she wrote "Vince and Jo went to the airport and they took everything they needed".  Isn't that sweet? She's also drawn a picture of Smokey Cat, a picture of a house with Vince, Smokey and me in it and a picture of the mountains.
After dinner tonight, we walked around the streets near here.  There are some really lovely houses.  We found some plots of land that were for sale, so we're going to phone tomorrow to see how much they are.  We've been thinking about buying a plot of land and having a house built, but all these are just thoughts at the moment.  I think we're pretty sure that we want to stay on the North Shore though.  It's just so nice!

Wednesday 18th April 1990
Had quite a busy day at work today.  Don, the boss, is going off for a trip to England and Ireland today (lucky thing).  He asked me to recommend a few places he should visit.  He wants to go to Greenwich and do the boat trip to Tower Bridge, so I told him to go to Greenwich Market, Greenwich Museum etc.  It's funny talking about those places, they just seem so near.  Wish I could have gone with him and visit you all!  Oh well!
Decided to take the SeaBus home today, so went to Lonsdale and bought a pizza for dinner.  Missed one bus home, so went to sit by the fountain and look at the City view whilst I waited for the next one.  Went to Save-On after dinner.  I can't seem to find any Worcester sauce anywhere, but Vince has seen some in a restaurant, so I guess you can buy it somewhere, just need to find out where.  After we've finished the chocolate that you sent for Easter, I'm going to cut out fattening things.  I've put on so much weight that my clothes are beginning to feel uncomfortable!  I'd never get into the beautiful outfit I had made in Thailand at the moment and would definitely not wear a bikini!!  Vince can pinch more than an inch round his waistline too!  Those chocolates you sent are delicious though.
Vancouver Seabus - I loved taking this ride to and from Downtown Vancouver.


Thursday 19th April 1990
Two people at work admired my Easter earrings today, so you chose those well.  Gail said today that it looks as though I will be going full-time soon, that's good, although I am enjoying leaving at 3pm! The extra money will help though.
Well it's rained non-stop today and looks like it will rain all night.  At least it's not too cold.  I think it's a night for staying in with the open fire!! Smokey doesn't like it when the fire's lit, he stays out of the room.  I think it's the crackling that puts him off.  
I've just had a call from the shipping company in Vancouver (8:45 pm) and our furniture has arrived!  I was really surprised as it's only taken about 6 weeks!  Unless they shipped it earlier than planned perhaps. It will have to go into storage for a while anyway.  At least it's here safe and sound.  Vince has gone out for a drink with his boss's son, so it's just Smokey and me tonight! Forgot to say, on the bus on the way home, a taxi reversed right into the side of the bus!  The bus driver was so rude to the taxi driver (I felt like reporting him to the bus company)!  He was shouting "do you have ***t for brains" and them told him to "***k off".  Charming!!
By the way, Smokey proved me wrong and sat in the lounge with me tonight while the fire was lit.  Must have been because Vince was out.  Ha Ha!

Friday 20th April 1990
Isn't April flying by?! Isn't time flying by? GOOD! I'm going to start writing on the back of the paper from now on in this letter as I've just read an environment leaflet which says write on both sides of the paper.  You're very good as you do that already. 
Vince has now got a phone in his van (what a show-off). They're preparing him for when he's out working on his own.  Today he worked on a big luxurious boat on Granville Island.  He said it was as big, if not bigger, than our old bungalow.  I miss our bungalow, it still seems strange that we're not going back to it.
Went out for a meal with Carolynn, Riyaz, Cheryl and Sean.  It was a cheap little café type restaurant that did Indian, Thai and Chinese food.  It only cost about £5 each but it was really good.  After that we all went on to a night club called "Soft Rock Café".  Most of the music was quite awful, but James would have liked it!  We did have a good time though and I had a bit of a dance.  We met a couple more of their friends too and went to bed at about 2am.  Yawn!

Saturday 21st April 1990
Laid in this morning and gave aerobics a miss.  I don't think I would have been up to it.  I think I must be getting old - 3 glasses of wine and a late night and I can't cope!!  Poor me, haha.  Carolynn has gone off to Montreal and Quebec today, so I didn't have time to meet her this morning.
Vince and I went into town and we bought some stuff for our keep fit.  Vince bought some trainers and shorts and I bought some stretch shorts.  So now we're all ready to get fit.  Yes, I know, it's about time Vince joined me, isn't it?  He's going to use the weight machines while I'm at aerobics and he's going to start jogging too.
Fell asleep when we got home, for half an hour, then cooked some cod for dinner which Smokey thought was for him.  He really likes the sound of his own Meow lately, wish he'd learn to speak human.  Vince gave in eventually and gave him some fish and the little bugger turned his nose up at it.  Huh!  Watched a film on tele called "King Kong Lives" a continuation from the old film.  It was very good but sad and I cried of course!

Sunday 22nd April 1990
It was lovely as always to speak to you both.  Wish phone calls were cheaper though, so we could talk for longer.  Went to the tea house at Fort Langley and Vince fixed their fridge, well almost, it needs a new condenser.  While Vince was doing the fridge, Faye, the lady who runs it, put me to work too!  I laid the tables for her, then did the fillings for some pecan tarts and sliced some oranges.  She gave us $5 on top of what Vince charged her because I'd helped her.
Went to look at the house I told you about on the phone, it wasn't as good as we expected which was quite a disappointment.  The outside was really nice, so was the garden and the area is lovely, but the inside was very small.  It had a large unfinished basement that could be developed but with a lot of work.  Looked at a couple of other houses too, but nothing special.
Took Smokey out for a drive in Vince's van to show him some scenery.  He wasn't very impressed though.  First of all he hollered his face off! (He probably has bad memories of travelling since the plane), then he got a bit more interested and kept bobbing his head up to have a look and then bobbing it down again.  He was very glad to get home again to say the least!
Tonight we watched the celebrity Earth Day Special.  Did you have anything on your tele about it? I'm sending you this leaflet that I got from work (that I was reading earlier).  I've met this Jim Hart who hosts "Eyes West Earthwatch" - he's a very nice man.

Monday 23rd April 1990
Had a one-day computer course today, so no work.  It was so boring, I nearly fell asleep!  Also it wasn't that good because we had a different teacher in the morning to the afternoon, so it was a bit confusing.  They did lay on some sandwiches for lunch though, but I'd taken a packed lunch because I didn't know! The second teacher was a right little smart arse - and funny enough his name was Ed Smart haha!
Cooked a nice shepherd's pie for dinner tonight.  I was quite impressed!  Went out for a short drive to look around the new housing estates.  Two years ago, we could have afforded them, but not now unfortunately.  Maybe in a couple of years when Vince makes me rich!

Tuesday 24th April 1990
Back at work today - Gail said she really missed me, which is good.  Got home in record time this afternoon, it just depends on how the bus connections work out.  I had a feeling there would be a letter from you today, so I rushed to look in the mailbox and there was!  I'm always so excited to open it, but then also like to prolong it, so the reading isn't over too quickly!  
What a really wonderful letter!  Well they're all great, but this one is so long - like a book! I almost feel as though you're chatting to me and I can hear your voice when I'm reading it.  Vince was pleased that he got so many mentions in it!  By the way, your letter smells lovely again and it does make me feel closer to you.  I close my eyes and imagine that you're standing there with me - I wish you were.  Well, fancy Nan having a man-friend - I don't suppose it would do any harm if she lived with this man for companionship, but I hope he has a lot of patience! I would loved to have seen Nana Ella again.  Did you take any photos of her? I was talking to Vince and her and Grandad Doug.  It's such a shame about what happened and him going off in a huff.  He was such a nice Grandad and funny too.  
By the way, we've decided to have our furniture delivered here as storage is expensive!  The boats that Vince works on are yachts.  Vince's boss's son has a boat and said he would take us both out in it (when the weather is nice though). We did have a good laugh about James working in the butcher shop, I can just imagine him heaving and nearly being sick!!  Oh dear!  Is that a permanent Saturday job or just a one-off? Glad your bee test was okay, can't wait for our first jar of honey.
Popped in to see the Woolstones.  Met George's sister, Joan, who lives in Kamloops.  That's in the interior of British Columbia.  Gave Heather a copy of the photos from the surprise party.  We were the only ones with a camera, so they were lucky they got any photos at all!  Heather asked what's new with you two, so gave her an update.

Wednesday 25th April 1990
Rained very hard today.  I went to a secretarial seminar that CKVU sent me on.  It was in a hotel and was quite interesting.  It was a talk on secretarial efficiency and how to best work with your boss and other people in the office.  They also laid on a very nice lunch.  Met an English lady there who used to live in Bromley - small world isn't it? She gave me her phone number in case I ever want a chat and a Canadian girl also gave me her phone number.  Everyone here is so open and friendly.
Smokey went to have his teeth cleaned today.  He's now a bit dopey and is staggering around from the anaesthetic, but he does have very clean teeth! They were cleaned and polished down so there were no rough edges that the food can cling to.  It cost $111.00 - we just had a heart attack!  
Went out to eat at White Spot because we forgot to get anything out of the freezer this morning.  Excuses, excuses, I know!  Heather called to say Carolynn had befriended two people on the plane to Montreal - she must make a habit of it.  I'm certainly glad we met her on the plane when we came on holiday.  It gave us a place to stay, nice people to know and led to us being able to rent this place from Sheila and Patrick.  We have been very lucky.

Thursday 26th April 1990
Back to work today.  Vince picked me up after work and we went to customs to get our furniture cleared.  Got charged $300.00 for duty on Vince's amplifier.  Bloody hell! Good job we're not storing our furniture now that's all I can say.  Vince had to do one more job after that, so I went to the mall in Coquitlam, it's quite an impressive place.  This evening went to a Linn Hi Fi evening which was very boring, even Vince thought so, but we did get two glasses of wine out of it at least!  Had dinner out in Red Robin.  Vince works in these restaurants all the time - no discount though, haha.  They do some very sticky and very fattening desserts.  James would love it for sure!

Friday 27th April 1990
Called the warehouse where our furniture is.  They are delivering everything tomorrow morning.  I'm quite excited now!  We'll have to stuff everything into the second bedroom, but the wardrobes and drawers we'll put in our bedroom because there's room and we can use them.  It will be nice to choose something different to wear.  My work outfits are a bit limited at the moment.  Smokey's looking forward to getting his scratching post and of course Vince is dead excited about his Hi-Fi.
We're going to order in a pizza tonight and stay in with the fire and the tele as it's cold and raining outside. Brrrr.  There's a film on tonight "The Beach Boys Story" so that should be good, I hope.
Well, I'll end here.  I almost hate ending a letter as much as I hate putting the phone down.  All the time I'm talking or writing, I feel close to you.

Sign-off from Jo x



In Which We Eat Out A Lot and Vince's Hi-Fi Arrives!

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